Q: I just recently quit smoking weed for one month after being a frequent daily user for many years. I haven’t been out at any events where marijuana has been present, but I’m worried about attending future events where it will be, and I’ll be tempted to smoke again. What should I do in these situations?
A: It can often be hard to change when you’re accustomed to certain habits. In social settings where smoking weed can be normalized, it’s best to plan ahead of time and focus on the main reason why you quit. Think of ways to distract you from your urges, such as chewing gum or keeping your hands and mind busy, like socializing or talking to a friend. If the craving is relatively intense, there is nothing wrong with exiting out of the situation. Often, the cravings can be too hard to handle. The most important thing an individual can do is remember their goals and keep peace of mind.
Q: What’s the proper amount of time to wait till you move in with your significant other?
A: Every relationship is different, and there isn’t a certain amount of time when to take the next big step with a partner. I would wait up to 6 months to a year. Moving in with someone is very major. However, if it is correct, there is nothing wrong with sharing a space with your significant other. Before taking the next big step, spend as much time as possible with each other, such as coinhabiting. Make sure you build up a strong emotional connection. An emotional connection can be vital for a relationship and living together. Being vulnerable and trusting each other shows the possibility of living together.
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This article was first published in the October 9 print edition of the University Times.
